Indeed, a quarrel between family members like the taste of a spice in cooking. But if too much 'spice flavor' yeah. . . Yuck, no yummy. So how to make the quarrel subsided and yielded positive effects for the family?
In this article, I posted a position as a 'we' where 'we' is not involved in a quarrel. As 'we', I'll give the suggestions as follows:
Make sedition among those who were quarreling.
For anyone who read this, you do not squinting first before understanding what I mean. Let say if happen a quarrel between B to A, say to the B,''Hi B! Did you know? The A actually so sorry make a quarrel with you. And the A really want to shake a hand and say sorry''. Vice versa, tell the statement to the A as same as that you tell to the B. This is a good sedition to reconcile the A with the B.
Refresh their memories by telling to them a beautiful and funny memories that had occurred between them before.
Thus, their egos would be melted and transformed into a smiling face or laugh, for they hear that story.
But if the root problem of their quarrel is quite complicated, the best thing is suggest they consult the experts to find solutions for peace between them.
